Grieving Toward Liberation With Oceana Sawyer
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In this space we will be tending grief as many of our ancestors have done before us: around a fire with music, movement, memory excavation, vocalization and as much or as little wailing required to be with our losses well enough that there is a bit of space to dream some new dreams.
This is sacred space. Do what you must to arrive on time. At some point, the entrance will be sealed and no one will be able to enter physically, though you may leave at any time. While you’re in the space, offers will be made and you’re invited to take only the ones that suit you.
Please do whatever feels good for you to do and nothing more, whether it’s full on wailing or quietly witnessing and anything in between. Participating from a moving vehicle is discouraged given the potential of the space to create a non-ordinary state of awareness. It is also recommended that you plan a day or evening of light activity following the circle to facilitate further integration and contemplation.Please arrive in the space with the following:Fire of some sort - a candle, fireplace, firepit, woodstove, chimenea, etc.A vessel of water and/or earth - cup, bowl, gord, etc Comfortable clothes in which you can move and maybe sweatDrinking WaterSomething with which to record your thoughts/revelations - paper, pen, crayons, electronic device, etcAn altar that includes, among other meaningful pieces, a representation of the loss you wish to honorOptionalHand instrumentArt suppliesEye maskThe circle will be formally opened and closed. If you leave early, please be mindful to “close the door behind you” and re-ground yourself in ordinary reality.
Recommended preparation from the Rooted library:“Grief and Grieving” by Arielle Schwartz, November 2020.“Grieving Toward Liberation” by Oceana Sawyer, October 2021
As an End of Life (EOL) Doula and grief guide, Oceana Sawyer specializes in the liminal spaces of active dying and grief. She is currently researching somatic abolitionism and embodied grief as well as developing and holding space for healing through a sensual lens. A certified as a home funeral celebrant, Living Funeral Ceremony facilitator, and Conscious Dying Educator, Oceana also holds a certificate in Grief Literacy from Being Here, Human as well as graduate degrees in counseling psychology and organizational development.Oceana draws upon her meditation practice, experience as a sensuality educator, earth-based spirituality, and intensive study in the expressive arts and integral counseling psychology to bring a grounded, compassionate presence and holistic approach to her work. Through Death Cafes, EOL vision mapping, speaking engagements, and virtual grief events and workshops, Oceana has the opportunity to work with individuals and groups from all walks of life. You can check out her latest events on her website, follow her on her Instagram and participate in her online grief community on Patreon.
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